It's been an odd week, as my BFF reminded me on Tuesday having the bank holiday can cause you to get the day's all wrong in your head apart from the rain as you see the resumption of schoolchildren making their way to school
Sometimes you feel more reflective and past incidents aside I do enjoy a slow steady session on a swing and that's when thoughts can go back.That Boarding School Girl
The blog of a Middle
Friday, 4 September 2026
Reversing back...
Friday, 28 August 2026
R.I.P Dolly
Music if in the decades of reading this blog is something you realized I'm quite passionate about often features here, some of the very first entries duo-posted between here and a blog on Friends Reunited in 2006 were an early sign of that.
Some of that was through listening to friends and siblings own recordings which alongside the radio tended to inform my ability to find what I really liked rather going with what my peers listened to.
My tastes are broad as they are go deep, no surprises then the physical media collection is pretty big both vinyl and compact disc/super audio cd.
Country music was a big influence on me, my parents loved Country apart from Jazz so we had many country albums, individual and greatest hits ones about and I wasn't opposed to plaything them myself when they weren't around.
One was Dolly Parton who died Tuesday after having cancer for a short periodFriday, 21 August 2026
Guess who's coming back?
The biggest off air soap opera with plot twists to rival anything on Eastenders or Coronation Street takes a new turn this week, in fact this is so breaking news bits are coming in dribs and drabs as I type.
Most of us can recall what we were doing way back in 2018 when Harry and Meghan got married, the start of the spectacular failing out between Harry and Prince William and spouses that run into the Royal Family generally.Other reasons include apparently the children getting along well with the Spencers, to whom Princess Diana, Harry's Mom was member of and the meeting with King Charles that seemed to turn out satisfactory.
Reaction will probably be mixed in the Country as a while, I have very mixed views on this as over the last eighteen months or so we've been getting tittle tattle suggesting the patience of the celebs in Montecito had been wearing thin and that it's hardly a inexpensive place to live before we consider how offended many of us feel about the manner their issues with the other royals were handled not least when the Duke of Edinburgh was seriously ill and indeed the period before the late Queen Elizabeth died.
They certainly did not need all this drama but maybe we might see a partial defrosting of the relationships and while I have some concerns around Prince Harry's character, he does have some strengths which can can better use over here.
We'll see.
Friday, 14 August 2026
The eclipse of the Sun
Yesterday was a very hot one following temperatures of 33 degrees C on Wednesday so apart from literally feeling under the weather despite drinking plenty of liquids but really there was only one thing we were talking about was a once in a lifetime experience when the Moon obscured the Sun which was visible from most of Europe.
People sat outside, sometimes in groups armed with special highly protective glasses, a hand made pinhole camera or improvising with a colander and a piece of card although that would give you multiple images.It was a great opportunity to learn about how the sun works, practise some basic skills we use in science and engineering and perhaps help reignite the interest in Astronomy and Space.
It also was a great spectacular event.
Friday, 7 August 2026
Rested
Well okay peoples, how's it going?
Last week was a blast although it could of started with a hoot as there I was fully dressed waiting for the traffic to clear to enter a car as one another enters our road and just stayed still for over a minute.
Talking about "stopping the traffic" I had no idea where to put myself and as next door has issues with a cross dressing assigned as male at birth family member the last thing you want is them staring at the window at you.
Anyway with all that over with I got along just fine ordering a slice of cake and pot of tea as we'd pass the time for meals to be served and then walked around the grounds of Whalley Abbey with no negative reactions even though I was make up free.
I also answered the door to the Amazon Courier as he had stuff for another resident here who didn't tell me when their order was due fully femme fine.
Crazy thing while away with friends was one said something to the effect "It's a delicate matter but do you have any trousers or jeans with you?" in connexion with going out to a meal.
This establishment isn't one with dress codes, no wellington boots, muddy hiking boots or anything like that bans and at least two in the party attending had deep male voices, one wore a school skirt, other had male type body hair which doesn't bother me and yet even though I was able to use a cafe "en femme" with no incident this individual was suggesting in a round about way I didn't "pass" and wasn't going to be allowed to join them unless I changed.
Given how Trans Passing Rules work, I have know cis females say they'd never pass the tests even they they WERE assigned at birth as female!
The good news was despite that Grring thing, I did feel more relaxed for just switching off from things at home and within the family.
Friday, 31 July 2026
The World Cup Boycott
The game is about world teams playing together, supporters mixing learning about each other other from richer nations in much of Europe and the Americas to the least well off in parts of Africa and plans that impinge upon regular club and regional competitions such as the Uefa Championship in Europe, extending the frequency of the World Cup and essentially converting it into a sponsored elite event is just wrong.
So to see Uefa, the English FA and the associations that cover the Caribbean, South and Central America and Asia reject it is so right especially as it was conducted very much in secret is heartening.
The games don't belong to FIFA and it's controversial leader to sell.
Friday, 24 July 2026
All change at No.10
Will be short and sweet post today as I'm away.
Well it finally happened.
The man who wanted to be party leader eventually having cleared the opposition became Labour Party leader Friday and by Monday following Sir Keir Starmer's resignation and seeing King Charles III, was duly appointed Prime Minister.
It is early days so we won't know if he can actually deliver on the main things of Labour's 2024 Election Manifesto which his predecessor just struggled with but he's scrapping the Digital ID project and has pledged to cut VAT on Electricity although you might wonder "What about my gas bill?" which is fair comment.
We should get a comprehensive statement about his policies for the economy by around October/November time which will be challenge given the shortage of wriggle room but I do sincerely hope he makes someway to improving peoples personal lives and the economy.






