Rested

 

Well okay peoples, how's it going?

Last week was a blast although it could of started with a hoot as there I was fully dressed waiting for the traffic to clear to enter a car as one another enters our road and just stayed still for over a minute.

Talking about "stopping the traffic" I had no idea where to put myself and as next door has issues with a cross dressing assigned as male at birth family member the last thing you want is them staring at the window at you.

Anyway with all that over with I got along just fine ordering a slice of cake and pot of tea as we'd pass the time for meals to be served and then walked around the grounds of Whalley Abbey with no negative reactions even though I was make up free.

I also answered the door to the Amazon Courier as he had stuff for another resident here who didn't tell me when their order was due fully femme fine.

Crazy thing while away with friends was one said something to the effect "It's a delicate matter but do you have any trousers or jeans with you?" in connexion with going out to a meal.

This establishment isn't one with dress codes, no wellington boots, muddy hiking boots or anything like that bans and at least two in the party attending had deep male voices, one wore a school skirt, other had male type body hair which doesn't bother me and yet even though I was able to use a cafe "en femme" with no incident this individual was suggesting in a round about way I didn't "pass" and wasn't going to be allowed to join them unless I changed.

Given how Trans Passing Rules work, I have know cis females say they'd never pass the tests even they they WERE assigned at birth as female!

The good news was despite that Grring thing, I did feel more relaxed for just switching off from things at home and within the family.

The World Cup Boycott

First off, I detest this paper usually with a fashion - sensationalist with a loose connection to truth and it's part in demonizing the Hillsborough dead and families, for that it's "The Scum" for me but this headline regarding the proposed part sell off of the World Cup in soccer (or Association Football to some) gets it spot on.

The game is about world teams playing together, supporters mixing learning about each other other from richer nations in much of Europe and the Americas to the least well off in parts of Africa and plans that impinge upon regular club and regional competitions such as the Uefa Championship in Europe, extending the frequency of the World Cup and essentially converting it into a sponsored elite event  is just wrong.

So to see Uefa, the English FA and the associations that cover the Caribbean, South and Central America and Asia reject it is so right especially as it was conducted very much in secret is heartening.

The games don't belong to FIFA and it's controversial leader to sell.
 

All change at No.10

Will be short and sweet post today as I'm away.

Well it finally happened.

The man who wanted to be party leader eventually having cleared the opposition became Labour Party leader Friday and by Monday following Sir Keir Starmer's resignation and seeing King Charles III, was duly appointed Prime Minister.

It is early days so we won't know if he can actually deliver on the main things of Labour's 2024 Election Manifesto which his predecessor just struggled with but he's scrapping the Digital ID project and has pledged to cut VAT on Electricity although you might wonder "What about my gas bill?" which is fair  comment.

We should get a comprehensive statement about his policies for the economy by around October/November time which will be challenge given the shortage of wriggle room but I do sincerely hope he makes someway to improving peoples personal lives and the economy.

A Smart Girl?

Another hot week, not quite as hot as last never mind the fortnight before and we turn or perhaps return to the topic of when a Girl legally or ceases socially to be that and becomes a Woman which is something that has varied over the decades.

Back in 1964, you became in Law an adult at 21 which around about the age you'd complete a undergraduate degree at University getting your certificate and then would be able to vote, stand for parliament and operate a full bank account.

Thus at the age of 18 you were still very much a boy or a girl, albeit with more responsibilities and privileges than your ten or twelve your old siblings and cousins as you moved more towards adulthood and most studies show the human brain doesn't stop growing until after 21.

There just was in the late 1960's a growth in the view 18 years ought to be adults that Parliament legislated for.

What this meant was the girl of 16 or 18 was that outside from being able to leave school to work which girls and boys back then did at 15, they were in many respects the "junior" and they still had children's annuals and publications but with the sophistication of the the older girl(or boy) in mind

Smart Girl was fashion publication for girls and young adults (by the definition then)  that decided to make a Annual that went beyond just fashion for those girls.

On the left we have the index showing entries on beauty and grooming, sowing, cartoon strips, fashion and fiction while the right hand side has the introduction setting out what the annual is all about

Here we have a cartoon strip about girls of these ages going out socially, playing ten pin bowling, having a different kind of fun than their younger sisters.

Above is a feature around hair care and styling as you now not only bought your own products but often wanted to emulate looks you'd seen.

Fashion advice features not surprisingly given it was published by a fashion magazine looking at putting together looks and whole wardrobes now that you took over a  good chunk the responsibility for dressing yourself from your Mom, not that she was short of an opinion to share and you wanted to express yourself more socially even if at college or work there still were restrictions.

That took us on to what younger publications wouldn't talk too much about which is starting a career, the skills and any qualifications you need as you need to support yourself.

Given the issues I had getting any careers advice at that age actually something like that would of been jolly useful!

Looking at it, it seems a very well put together annual for that age group.

Personally I've always been a bit sceptical about the notion that as an 18 year old you were really that mature, not that some may well of felt it even amongst schoolfriends in the sixth form who in certain critical ways were more of their age than I was.

Adulthood can wait until you really have grown into it and even then not everything has to be purposeful or serious.

Hot thoughts

Well, it's been a warm one so I'm rather glad of having short skirts on this week as they really do help keep cool and avoid that sticky clammy feeling that's so so ikky.

We've not long before school breaks up which did help with Early Monday (UK Time) with England's World Cup match that put them through to the Quarter Finals facing Norway this weekend.

Some schools laid on either full or highlights coverage of the match and used it as a springboard for work in English and Art given much of the formal syllabus can't be touched with the imminent closure for Summer Hols. 

I did read some old comics while trying to stay cool and one cartoon strip I recall was Little Plum which was an attempt to make what today I'd call First Nations people specifically children look universal in a world where much we were fed, usually from American sources showed them as savages, justifying land confiscation and much ill treatment. 

It would be easy today to criticize the usage of language and the like and in more recent returns such things are put aright but at least you could feel more empathy with Little Plum and his chums than we had on Westerns.
 

Canada Day edition

 

Wednesday saw Canada Day but what is that?

Canada Day is a national holiday celebrating the country’s independence from Great Britain in 1867. The new nation, still loyal to Great Britain, was called the Dominion of Canada and consisted of only four provinces ((Nova Scotia, New Brunswick, Ontario, and Quebec).

Now, there are 10 provinces and 3 territories. At first, the holiday was called Dominion Day, but in 1982 Canada gained complete independence from Great Britain and it was renamed Canada Day. 

It is a day for Canadians everywhere to show pride in their country’s history and culture.

Memo for a well known American: It isn't for sale!

Past lives

This week has been trying on so many levels, physically with the heatwave that as someone that runs on the warm side has had me on the edge of a Heat Stroke, the loss of a person while loud and at times a little overbearing was nevertheless generous with their time in organizing get togethers and a influence for the good when it came keeping things in bounds.

In connexion with that some misunderstandings and actions by others that rather tainted affairs for days, leaving me well out of things that much of the political business from the Peace Deal with Iran that fell apart within hours to Keir Starmer's resignation announcement on Monday with the likely appointment in July of Andy Burnham as Labour Leader and appointment as Prime Minister in time for the September reopening of Parliament.

My thoughts have been more centred around past lives as we'd sooner of had them and the era immediately before my arrival on this planet.

Things back then for females were very different, few worked beyond the single woman with the notion of being married, having children and working being looked down upon, there were restrictions when it came to banking and getting loans being treated very much as a child requiring a man, even your father to underwrite it even if you were over 21 (the then age of becoming an Adult).

Annuals for older girls were different because you were a girl for long even if at the age of 15 you might of gone to work - you were a child labourer in effect - and so this one looked more at art, the interests of her and a good deal about fashion even if unlike in America wearing jeans wasn't a thing.

You aspired to look like a younger version of your mother and other adult females showing sophistication and traditional femininity.

This copy for 1960, so published in 1959 isn't in bad shape although the spine is a bit damaged superficially with the printed section torn.

I'll carefully restick it with Scotch "Magic" adhesive tape that holds things together without living permanent markings which restorers tend to use unless they were going to attempt to stick it to a paper based backing,

I find such topics and even some stories fascinating as much as during the 1970's many books like this was tossed out going for mere pence on jumble sales as utterly outmoded.

It was the sort of thing my mother had.