My life is evolving not least since the last few years with bits of that being said at certain sites like Angels, sometimes referenced on here but in truth it's going to take this blog in differing direction.
One part of that has been studying across weekends to tackle some of my very real problems in core areas such as everyday Maths and English which with the odd pause for weekends away or illness has been going on since the beginning of this year.
Since I had been away last weekend the resumption of studying this weekend tackling the outstanding English work taking our time was set so I don’t over do things but equally I not allowed to get away with not doing the things I can do.
It’s always been easier to sit around not doing things either expecting an exemption, or because those who might of expected anyone else to seem to think I shouldn’t to the point they never really saw what I could do because they never had me try it or I was feeling like being bone lazy.
So for a very long time my default was to do nothing and in so far anything like studying went if it wasn’t going to be easy then plenty of people would just let me do next to nothing even while it may of hard going, I could of done something more.
That’s really thing that is changing both with the studying having to do things I find hard, coping with flare ups of some of my conditions which consideration is given to and even being with people where I am expected to help out, contributing in kind that people are helping me turn around those old habits being prepared to pull me over a lap for a spanking when I didn’t do it which truthfully is what the child emerging teen should of gotten apart from having some kind of agreed chores list.
Thinking over how I have dealt with my recent paw problems plus my more recent visits staying with people underscores this so much.